So, I am seriously considering postponing or reconstructing this whole big wedding. Honestly, I don't know how much more I can handle. It's not fun and I have yet to feel like a bride. I don't mind planning my own showers, that's super fun for me, but when it's not really about MY wedding it's about "is Meme still wearing the 40 year old dress?" "What do you mean my kids can't come to the wedding?" and the newest fun one "well I didn't think the No Kids Rule applied to me." Yep, I'm pretty much done after that. I'm so tired of these looks like I'm some kind of kid hater! I promise, I'm not! It's quite the opposite actually. But no matter how much I love these kids, I still don't think a formal reception is a place for children! Why is that so ridiculous? And then my bridesmaids. Most of them don't even know what day it is. Joey volunteered to take over the bachelorette party, which is a big relief because that is out of my league and would just be embarrassing if I planned my showers and the bachelorette party. But luckily, Joey is excited to be in the wedding. Courtney is most days. Stacy is so tired of hearing or doing anything wedding related I don't even think she cares to be a bridesmaid, let alone Maid of Honor. And Jill, let's not forget about Jill. I'm at the point now where most jokes about the wedding aren't funny. Especially when you threaten to bring kids in and have them run across the dance floor during my first dance. Jill, who also has no idea what day the wedding is, would probably rather be ANY place rather than there that day.
This is just not fun. I don't feel like the bride. I feel like a bridesmaid/wedding planner. But definitely NOT a bride. I'm thinking just keep the wedding at the church and a small reception nearby with dancing and drinking with just close family and friends. None of the 3rd cousin twice removed shit or my tennis friend's daughter. Guess I better figure it out quick!
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